What Has To Be Will Be In Its Time And Time
What has to be will be, in due time and in due course, because fate is uncertain and sometimes the winds simply do not blow in our favor, nor are our sails to hoist despite our efforts.
They say that the best things are not planned, that they just happen and that it is better not to press time. Because really if something should happen, it will happen anyway. And if it shouldn’t, then it won’t. It is simple.
The fact that things are simpler than we originally planned opens up a wide range of possibilities for us to enjoy life from another perspective that is much more relaxed and friendly for our well-being.
Everything passes, everything arrives, everything transforms
We will probably all agree that we are a product of our circumstances and our desires. However, sometimes these are incompatible or, at least, it is difficult for us to digest the consequences that they entail. This creates worries that make us feel distressed and, as they say, embitter our existence.
The truth is that yes, it seems obvious that we should not worry about what we can not solve, but letting go and staying calm at certain times can be practically impossible.
That is why perhaps what we must learn is that there are certain things that are beyond our control and that letting life flow and accepting what the circumstances are is the best of our options on many occasions.
We are not the shell, we are the breath
We are what we digest, the stones we stumble over, the scratches we don’t heal, and the tragic endings of our lives. We are not all smiles, joys or truths, we are also lies (those that we are told and those that we tell ourselves) , we are the criticisms and the tears that we do not cry.
So to cover with our reins everything that makes us up we have it more than complicated. But this does not mean that we have to distrust happiness or, simply, the coincidences of life.
This will help us not to miss trains and not to regret what we have lost due to our restless mania of marking the punctuation marks of a text. When it has to be a full stop, let it be, but we respect the ellipsis, the commas and the periods and apart.
They say that what does not kill you makes you stronger and that it is precisely that impulse that helps you travel miles and miles of stone paths with bare feet. The truth is, the key is squeezing out mistakes and enjoying the winds of change.
Remember that those parts of you that you don’t usually connect with lose the strength they need to activate. Therefore, do not let life go by looking at how the batteries in your watch are used up, do not go back in time.
Give it continuity, learn to relax, to look with a magnifying glass at those thoughts that harm you and to contemplate life with patience. Sometimes you just need to blur your camera, let time pass and let yourself be carried away by chance.
